Mar 12, 2011

the softer side


I do not understand clearly why is the male species so interested to dominate the weaker sex. Is it because they can, or is it because of some paranoid thoughts creeping inside the minds of the lunatics and fanatics. Woman are mothers, who likes to disrespect one's own mother. I have witnessed a number of cases where there is a big-time prejudice against woman. It is true. The places and scenes i could rectify, i did. It is not that men are born strong and woman are weak. The male species together volunteer to project them weaker than they actually are. At times we also notice that women tend to take away their own lives as to refrain from torture and pressure from many sources of external domination. Not only dowry or domestic violence against women related to torturing women physically or mentally, but also a various other mode of displacement of position which takes place in a woman's life. She is dumb, so she cannot retaliate, if she does she is proven to be vulgar or may be mentally handicapped. We have to realize that she is also made of flesh and bone as any other living being. Though the law has substantially attempted to erase the line of differences between man and woman, (wry 498 A, and 504 B I.P.C-which only helps to bail the accused) but still the society will never let them be at par. So the concerned women of today will have to unite and oppose this brutal discrimination.
I am a complete feminist. I not only respect women, but also revise on how difficult it is for a woman to leave her own house and adjust in a place which is completely alien to her. may be her husband is known to her, but not his family. On top of that,if her husband also misbehaves or starts to dominate her...imagine her life then. How would one feel if the person's parents fight every time, the father beats and abuses the mother everyday,(though beating/physical torture is not only the part or method of torture, there are various other means) can the person live a life of content and happiness? This a simple case. There are even more complex and critical situations where the mother goes missing...and no one even bothers to look into the matter. The children then become 'semi-orphan', because the father may run the family with money, but the mother nurtures and nourishes the child make herself invisible in the matters of attention and care. Without a mother, a family is completely unstable, i do not know about other families but it is with mine. In the cases of divorces...it is the sheer bad luck of the mother, she may or may not get financial support from her divided partner. If a boy child talks over the phone the whole night, no body is there to scold or reprimand him, but if it is with a girl, hell breaks loose.If a boy purchases expensive clothes for his friend, the parents make no fuss, but if the scene is vice-versa her pocket money is completely seized. She neither has the freedom, nor has the position to be free at home. There is always some body to dictate her, may be her mother. Why ? because she had also faced this tyranny once. If she cannot remain comfortable at her own home, where else is she expected to do good...this question lays solely upon your own opinion and discretion/for women. Answer yourself, not me (introspect).

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